goldfinger
- 09 Jun 2005 12:25
Thought Id start this one going because its rather dead on this board at the moment and I suppose all my usual muckers are either at the Stella tennis event watching Dim Tim (lose again) or at Henly Regatta eating cucumber sandwiches (they wish,...NOT).
Anyway please feel free to just talk to yourself blast away and let it go on any company or subject you wish. Just wish Id thought of this one before.
cheers GF.
Fred1new
- 14 Dec 2012 14:38
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G.
The few pints and a chat, often did not resolve the problems and led to a culture of high intake levels of alcoholism within the Polices force over various periods.
Sometimes a "chat" with the "boys", or "mother or father" figures may help to put things in proportion, or evaluating the "trauma" and resolving possible "feelings" of failure, or realising that many more would temporally fail in similar situations.
Similar is done by a long walk on a beach etc..
But not always.
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Doctors, the general public, health professions and psychotherapist often misdiagnose or confuse the emotional state of their clients etc..
The aetiology of the symptoms being presented, or not presented, by the "distressed" individual.
There is a tremendous difference by those suffering from biochemical depression and being unhappy, dissatisfied by their lot ect.. The help or treatment should be modified to attempt to treat of modify the effects of the aetiology.
There is also a tremendous variation in the states group as "suffering from anxiety".
Previously the medically over treatment this group by medication was eventually to the their detriment.
Many times. if instead of suppressing the symptoms with alcohol or tranquillisers the question "what are you anxious about" was asked, maybe coping mechanisms, or models of coping would have be more useful.
Again, this is simplistic and easier to say but more difficult to do.
But the application of "home spun psychology" has its own problems. Win some, lose many.
greekman
- 14 Dec 2012 15:59
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Their open remorse is because of the suicide, not because they feel guilty of the calls made.
Its a bit like the 'sorry it was an error of judgement' we get from the fiddling MPs when they are caught out, when what they really mean is 'they are sorry they were caught'.
TANKER
- 14 Dec 2012 16:00
- 19650 of 81564
just back from visiting some young girl who as got cancer
she wants to live and some one takes there life
i no who i feel sorry for and it is not a sucide person
TANKER
- 14 Dec 2012 16:02
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if she was a proper nurse and mother she would not of done it
she should of gone down to the local hospice and no what suffering is
dreamcatcher
- 14 Dec 2012 16:05
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I better not comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dreamcatcher
- 14 Dec 2012 16:07
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Some of your comments really? I have a plank of wood in the garage with more brains
TANKER
- 14 Dec 2012 16:11
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dream i bet you have never visited your local hospice you should and take some money if you can they need it
3 monkies
- 14 Dec 2012 16:17
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Oh dear me what next??? Feel like you dc. Wish the subject would get changed as the whole affair is depressing enough in itself.
dreamcatcher
- 14 Dec 2012 16:19
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Tanker, ''if she was a proper nurse'' its the way you you put sentences together.
I think you are far from understanding a person who is mentally ill?
3 monkies
- 14 Dec 2012 16:19
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Oh! hells bells it gets worse.
dreamcatcher
- 14 Dec 2012 16:21
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Agree 3m, lets leave it there. I think he should visit a hospital that looks after the mentally ill and get a understanding of these people.
TANKER
- 14 Dec 2012 16:24
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i always wonder what type of person one is when i am there with my tin collecting for my local hospice and people do a detour so they do not have to put in
skinny
- 14 Dec 2012 16:25
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Visit one!!!!
doodlebug
- 14 Dec 2012 17:09
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If someone posted a picture of Ed Balls on here right now, after all this, I would definitely slit my wrists ( just joking )!
greekman
- 14 Dec 2012 17:58
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Had Tanker squelched for ages, can't understand why anyone bothers to read what he posts, or replies to him.
He is like that other poster (he who remains nameless) who just posts for attention and reaction.
On a happy note, its 11 more days to Xmas.
Fred1new
- 14 Dec 2012 19:44
- 19663 of 81564
Greek,
Perhaps, some are more tolerant of those with different views to the someone as omniscient as yourself.
Also, in many ways you present your opinions with similar zeal as the Tinker.
Not related, are you?
TANKER
- 15 Dec 2012 08:00
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greek she killed herself she was not killed her choice
people are fighting to live from terrible illnesses
a person who as a loverly life would not kill them selves
my throughts are with the ill fighting to live
not people who want to die .
and reading all the info that is out the inquiry needs to look at the hospital staff
not the aussie radio it must be a horrible place to work
Stan
- 15 Dec 2012 09:14
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Tanks old son, it's the weekend.. have a day off.
TANKER
- 15 Dec 2012 17:21
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Teenager, 15, kills herself two months after 'suicide' of her younger sister, 13, who was targeted by cyberbullies
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2248590/Shannon-Gallagher-Teenager-15-kills-months-suicide-younger-sister.html#ixzz2F8rtsAYc
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this was not on the tv .
forgot the royals wee not involved so it does not matter
Stan
- 15 Dec 2012 21:53
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.. And try reading something other then the DM.